Thursday, 17 September 2015

Freeeeevrroooommm....

“This group changed my life…”; “This group has come to mean so much to me…”; “My entire life changed since I have been part of this group…”; “I’ve become more confident and feel ki kuch bhi kar sakthi hoon…”

Pic Courtesy: Roshini S Miraskar
Statements I have been hearing for a while and for the longest time I kept trying to figure how…how can one group change so much or help in such a transformation?

It was on a recent ride that I finally got it. This group I am talking about is the Bikerni.

What is this group about? This group is about a set of female only bikers who ride together. What is the agenda? Nothing, just ride.
Pic Courtesy: Roshini S Miraskar
It is a platform for women with a common and shared passion to connect on and to make friends and to live an experiential life that by themselves, perhaps, is not a possibility, in many cases. The only common denominator in this group is the passion to ride. Nothing else. 

The bikes are different, the styles of riding are different, the backgrounds are different, some are home makers, some Head verticals in  large MNC’s, some are professionals and some artists. The girl still in college and the mother whose girl is in college, the young and old exist on this platform together sharing the same experiences. The powerful and the meek, the Harley's and the Splendours, the globe trotter and the girl who just moved to a large city from a little tiny village…all exist together…all bond together…all ride together.


What does this group do? Meet on a regularly, make plans to visit new places, ride on new roads, go as far and wide as possible and as often as possible. 
This 'possible’ is not too possible always…cause this is a group of women and as women there are ‘n’ number of reasons not to be able to ride…guilt trips by parents, children vying for attention, husbands snide remarks, in-laws sense of misplaced ‘norms’, societies snickers, project deadlines, targets to be achieved, limited leaves that need to optimized…the list is endless. And then there is only one reason therefore to ride…just the raw call of passion for the open road, for the beat of the engine for the feel of the wind at 80 kmph and the 
unfettered feeling of being with like-minded women and to just ‘be’.
Pic Courtesy: Roshini S Miraskar

It is when this group comes together on rides that you see what a woman really perhaps is…without calls of duty, without having a schedule to follow, without pressures, without judgment, without prejudice. She laughs, she talks, she lazes, she dances, she lives. She conquers fears, she conquers twists, she conquers speeds and she conquers all the other things that hold her back from realizing her full potential. She learns about herself and she learns about her potential. She changes, she gets better, she likes who she becomes.

Pic Courtesy: Me :)
And then from one ride to the next, she holds on to that self of hers, that she became, that she discovered, that she loves, but cannot be. Until the next ride, until the next trip…she will run on memories.


And that is what this platform does…and that is why I continue to hear statements like those, even after several rides and several meet ups…


That’s your sneak peek into the world of a Bikerni…welcome aboard if you are one of us… 

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